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Compassion and
Empathy
Training for Students
Dear Members of the Lions Club of Honolulu,
As part of the Lions Club of Honolulu
commitment to the youth, we have started conducting Compassion and
Empathy Training to several schools on Oahu. Campbell High School
received the first training.
Compassion is deeply caring about one’s own
and others’ pain. Empathy is ability to feel what another is
feeling. We, especially as adults, have a responsibility to
instill these values to the youth. As Lions, we abide to a
specific code of ethics and should not stop within the organization
but continue to influence our youth and the public.
I believe that most, if not all, people are
born with both empathy and compassion as part of the essential
selves. However, when youth don’t receive empathy and
compassion from the parents and family members, they may shut down.
Other children may shut it down when one of their parents has deep
empathy and compassion for others but not for themselves and end up
being walked on or abused because of it. The child or the teen
doesn’t want to be vulnerable and walked on like the empathic
parent, so may decide that it is safer to shut down the empathy and
compassion. Once people shut down their empathy and
compassion, they can do great harm to others by being emotionally
disrespectful, abusive or physically violent. It is through
empathy that we experience our ones with others and therefore cannot
do them harm
As far as our Lions Club of Honolulu
Compassion and Empathy Training, education is one of the tools being
utilized to instill and enhance compassion and empathy. When I
conducted training with the senior class at Campbell High School, I
started with a pre-test to assess the level of knowledge and
feelings on Alzheimer’s disease and related disorders. All the
26 students failed the pre-test, and indicator that they have very
limited knowledge about the disease and their attitudes towards the
disease, to those affected, and their family was below average.
Using a PowerPoint®
presentation, I discussed the biologic basis of Alzheimer’s disease,
behavioral aspects of the disease, difficulties of Alzheimer’s
patients as they go through various stages, and the level of burden
of families and caregivers as they go through the journey.
Initially the students were very quiet. However,
as I progressed in my presentation, questions from the students
increased and before the presentation ended, there was more sharing
and openness among them and some disclosed that they have loved ones
suffering from Alzheimer’s disease or some form of dementia.
Before I ended my presentation, I gave the
students a post-test to measure how much they learned about the
disease and also to measure their feelings towards those affected by
the disease and their families/caregivers. The results were
remarkable. All of the 26 students got 100% score and there
was a positive shift in their feelings towards those affected by the
disease. Lastly, all of the students were more empathic in
their responses in both written and verbal assessments.
Compassion Training Transforms the Mind*
Using MRI brain scans, scientists have begun
tracking effects compassion training. "We are finding that we
can transform the changing the mind," according to Richard J.
Davidson, PhD, Director Laboratory for
Affective Neuroscience and the Keck Laboratory Functional Brain
Imaging and Behavior at the University of Wisconsin Madison.
The brain region related to compassion—the
insula, is special. He explains, "It is the only brain area
that monitors the body and provides the brain with information on
what’s going on in the body, signals to the body that might change
during emotional distress."
"Compassion training can generate a state in
which loving and envelopes the whole brain," he says. "When
people meditate on the signals to the insula and other brain regions
involved empathy understanding are changed. The change is more
dramatic among practitioners, compared with novice practitioners,"
he adds.
His studies have shown that with even a little
compassion training, can reap a physical and psychological benefit.
Mahalo nui loa!
President Keoni Kealoha Devereaux, Jr
* From WebMD, Health and Balance:
http://www.webmd.com.
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82nd Charter
Anniversary Dinner
The Lions Club of Honolulu the Mother Club of
Lionism in Hawai‘i celebrated its 82nd Charter Anniversary on
October 14. Lions, Leos, and guests joined together for a
celebration that confirmed the matriarch club is well on its way to
its Centennial Anniversary.



Visit Lion
Donna's New Gallery
91st LCI Convention in Bangkok
NEW CLUB SHIRTS

For those of you who have not
seen our members at recent Lions functions, check out the look of
the new Club shirts! They present
a very bright, outstanding look and many other Lions have inquired
about where our club got them.
Thanks to PDG Bernard for doing the legwork on getting these
produced. If you would like to buy a shirt or fabric to make your
own garment (see 2nd picture), please contact PDG Bernard.
BTW, they wash very well—no
ironing needed. Shirts cost $38.
Pearl Harbor Memorial Boat
Tour

On July 25th, Lions from several
O‘ahu clubs were guests of Chinatown Lion Stanford Yuen, Executive
Assistant to Rear Admiral Tim Alexander, Navy Region Hawai‘i, who
graciously allowed this tour of the Pearl Harbor Memorial and Ford
Island.
Click here for the complete
gallery.
Sign up now for October
31st tour. See Calendar of Upcoming Events for details.
We Serve: the Legacy of the Hawai‘i
Lions video. This excellent video contains amazing
historical facts about the founding of the Mother Club, the Lions
Club of Honolulu, the impact it had on Lions internationally and the
growth of Lionism in Hawai‘i. A must see video, it can
still be purchased for $15. Contact the club Secretary for
details. In the meantime,
check out
this promo video by Lion Diane Ako (KHNL newscaster). Lion
Diane even talks about wearing her Lion pin!
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Calendar of Upcoming Events
The General Membership Meeting
is always held on the second Tuesday of each
month at the Empress
Restaurant in the Chinese Cultural Plaza on the corner of Beretania and
Maunakea Streets. Lunch at the meeting is
$11 per person. Noon-1:10PM.
The Business/Social Meeting will
be held on the fourth Tuesday of each month at the Wai‘oli Tea Room, 6:00PM,
unless notified of change.
Click Here for November Bulletin
Click Here for HLC Bulletin Archive
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November
2008 |
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Fundraiser for Cambodian Christmas
Mission, University Baptist Church (on University Avenue by Mid
Pacific Institute), 4:00-9:00PM. Tax deductible monetary donations
for the Mission can be made through the
Honolulu Lions Club Foundation.
Contact Lion Hongly Khuy (843-0437) for more information. |
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Board Meeting, Maple Garden
Restaurant, 9:30AM. |
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General Meeting, Empress Restaurant, Noon.
Sign up before November 6th with Lions Grace or Nancy S.
Payment should be made to Treasurer Kin prior to the meeting. |
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14 |
Kamehameha Lions Club 60th Charter Anniversary Dinner, 3660 On the
Rise, 6:00PM social; 6:50PM dinner and program. $60 per person |
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15 |
District 50 Forum, 8:30AM-2:00PM, Jarrett Middle School.
$8 per person. |
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18 |
Vision Screening, Pu‘uhale Elementary School, 345 Pu‘ujale Road,
832-3190. |
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25 |
Business Meeting and Social, Wai‘oli Tea Room, 6:00PM. Call
Lions Nancy S. or Grace to sign up before November 21st. |
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December
2008 |
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9 |
Vision Screening, Princess Ka‘iulani Elementary School, 783 North
King Street, 832-3160. |
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HAPPY HANUKKAH |
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25 |
MERRY CHRISTMAS |
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January 2009 |
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13 |
General Meeting, Empress Restaurant, Noon. |
November
Anniversaries
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14 years |
Charlotte Tsie |
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13 years |
Tatsuya Taga |
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12 years |
Rod Tam |
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1 year |
Derek Ching |

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November Birthdays |
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6 |
Reynold
Feldman |
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6 |
Tatsuya Taga |
Other Region IV Zone I Clubs
Visit another club
Aloha Pono Lions Club
call 922.2433
Chinatown Lions Club
2nd & 4th Thursday
New Empress Restaurant
Kalakaua Lions Club
1st, 3rd Thursday
Wah Kung Restaurant
Kamehameha Lions Club
2nd, 4th Tues
St. Louis Alumni Clubhouse
Moanalua Lions Club
1st, 3rd Wednesday
Moanalua Golf Club
District 50 Website
Please be sure to bookmark the
District 50 Website so
you can keep abreast of the many happenings in Honolulu Lions Club,
District 50 and Lions Club International.
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